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75 Bad Habits Examples and What to Replace Them With

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Bad habits are behaviours repeated automatically in a stable context, cued by the situation rather than chosen, which is why deciding to stop rarely survives the situation. This list gives 75 examples grouped into seven areas: phone and attention, sleep and evenings, food and drink, money and spending, work and focus, body and health, and mind, mood and other people. Each one is paired with a replacement behaviour specific enough to record, because a competing response occupies the moment the habit would have filled (Azrin & Nunn, 1973). One widely repeated piece of advice does not hold up: in two diary studies published by Quinn, Pascoe, Wood and Neal in 2010, removing the trigger, known as stimulus control, worked on temptations but not on strong habits. The only strategy that helped against strong habits was vigilant monitoring, meaning watching for the slip and catching it, which is what a written record makes possible.

Every list of bad habits gives you the same thing: names. Scrolling, snoozing, snacking, overspending. Naming a habit has never changed one, because the naming is not the hard part. The hard part is that the situation which sets the habit off is still there tomorrow morning. So this list gives each habit a second column: the behaviour that occupies the same moment, in a form specific enough to tick.

What are some examples of bad habits?

The 75 below are grouped into seven areas: phone and attention, sleep and evenings, food and drink, money and spending, work and focus, body and health, and mind, mood and other people. They are ordinary rather than dramatic, because ordinary is what a habit is: a behaviour repeated so often in the same context that the context starts it for you. Each row names the habit and the replacement that fills the same slot in the day.

A bad habit is a behaviour you repeat automatically in a stable context, cued by the situation rather than chosen in the moment, and which works against a goal you actually hold. The automatic part is what separates it from a bad decision.

That definition does real work here. A bad decision is made once, with your attention on it. A bad habit runs while your attention is elsewhere. In two diary studies at Texas A&M University, Wendy Wood, Jeffrey Quinn and Deborah Kashy found that when people were performing habitual behaviour, behaviour done almost daily in a stable context, their thoughts were typically about something unrelated to what they were doing. Nobody decides to check their phone at a red light. That is the point.

The 75 examples, with a replacement for each

Read the second column as the thing you do at the moment the habit would have started, not as a general improvement. A replacement that is vaguer than the habit it replaces will lose, every time, because the habit is specific and immediate and the replacement is not.

Phone and attention

The largest category, and the one where the cue is hardest to remove: the phone comes with you. Notice that most replacements below change where the object is, not how much you want it.

#The habitThe replacement you tick instead
1Checking your phone before getting out of bedphone charges outside the bedroom overnight
2Scrolling in bed at nightphone on the kitchen counter after 22:00
3Refreshing the same three apps in a loopone scheduled check, 20 minutes, timer running
4Doom scrolling the newsnews read once a day in a browser, app deleted
5Opening a short video app with no end pointone video chosen before the app opens
6Phone on the table during mealsphone face down in another room while you eat
7Taking your phone to the bathroomphone stays outside the door
8Answering notifications the second they arrivenotifications off, two batches a day
9Reading work messages in bedwork apps signed out of the phone
10Reaching for the phone at every queue and red lightten slow breaths, nothing opened
11Saving articles you never readone saved article read before the next one is saved
12Toggling do not disturb by hand, sometimesa scheduled quiet window, same hours daily

Sleep and evenings

Sleep habits look like willpower problems and are almost always scheduling problems. Each replacement here is a time or a place, which is why it can be ticked.

#The habitThe replacement you tick instead
13Going to bed at a different time every nightsame lights out time, seven days a week
14Staying up late to reclaim time you did not get30 minutes of your own time taken before 21:00
15Hitting snooze four timesone alarm, placed across the room
16Coffee after 16:00last coffee before 14:00
17Falling asleep with a screen playingscreen off before you lie down
18Eating your largest meal at 22:00dinner finished three hours before bed
19Working in bedwork stays at the desk or the kitchen table
20Drinking to fall asleepa glass of water and ten pages of a book
21Weekend wake-up three hours later than weekdayswake-up within an hour of the weekday time
22Planning tomorrow at midnightthree tasks written before you leave the desk

Food and drink

Food habits are cued by time, place and tiredness far more than by hunger. The replacements are portions, positions and a written list, not a diet.

#The habitThe replacement you tick instead
23Skipping breakfast then overeating at noonsomething with protein within an hour of waking
24Eating standing at the counterone meal a day sitting down, no screen
25Snacking straight from the packeta portion on a plate, packet back in the cupboard
26Drinking most of your calorieswater first, anything else second
27Ordering delivery whenever you are tiredone frozen backup meal kept for tired days
28Food shopping while hungrya written list, shopped after eating
29Finishing the plate long after you are fullfork down halfway, 60 seconds, then decide
30Cooking nothing all weekone cooked meal, one named evening
31Alcohol on weeknights by defaultalcohol-free Monday to Thursday, counted not estimated
32Vaping through the working dayeach craving met with water and a two-minute walk
33Only drinking water once you have a headachea full glass before every meal

Money and spending

Money habits are the easiest to deny and the easiest to verify, because the bank already logged them. Most replacements below are a date in the calendar.

#The habitThe replacement you tick instead
34Buying from adverts inside apps48 hours between wanting it and buying it
35Never looking at your balancebalance read once a week, same day
36Paying for subscriptions you stopped usingone subscription reviewed each month
37Shopping when bored or upsetthe item goes on a list, not in the basket
38Estimating your spending in your headthe actual number written down weekly
39Saving whatever is left at month endtransfer on payday, automatic, first
40Buy now pay later on small purchasesone card, on a balance you can see
41Leaving cash idle for a year without decidingone financial decision a quarter, in the calendar
42Paying bills late by accidentdirect debit set, one reminder day a month
43Never reading the statement line by lineten minutes on Sunday, one statement

Work and focus

Work habits get labelled as productivity and they behave like every other habit: same room, same hour, same trigger. The replacements set a boundary rather than an intention.

#The habitThe replacement you tick instead
44Email open in a tab all dayemail closed, opened at two set times
45Starting the day inside other people’s requestsfirst 45 minutes on your own task, nothing else open
46Accepting every meeting invitationone question asked: what decision needs me here
47Working across four windows at onceone window, one task, until the timer ends
48Working without a break until you crash50 minutes on, 10 minutes away from the screen
49Leaving the hardest task until the eveninghardest task first, before the second coffee
50Eating lunch at the desk20 minutes away from the desk, every working day
51Keeping the task list in your headthree tasks written the evening before
52Polishing a draft nobody has readfirst version sent at 70 percent
53Answering quick questions all afternoontwo blocks a day, questions batched into them
54Reopening the laptop after dinnerlaptop closed and put away at a set hour
55Ending the week unsure what you didfive lines written on Friday: what moved

Body and health

This group contains the nervous habits, and those are the ones with the oldest evidence behind the replacement approach. A competing response is a movement you can do instead, in the same second.

#The habitThe replacement you tick instead
56Sitting four hours without standingstand and walk two minutes every hour
57Taking the lift for one floorstairs under four floors, no exceptions
58Only exercising when you feel like ittwo fixed sessions a week, in the calendar
59Skipping the warm-upfive minutes, before the first set
60Biting your nailshands into a competing movement the moment you notice
61Picking at your skinthe same competing response, held for one minute
62Clenching your jaw at the deskone check at the top of each hour: jaw loose
63Slouching into the laptopscreen at eye level, checked once each morning
64Cancelling medical appointmentsone booked appointment kept per quarter
65Smokingzero cigarettes, counted, each craving met with a two-minute action

Mind, mood and other people

The habits nobody lists, because they leave no evidence. They are still cued behaviour, and they are still replaceable. The last one is the reason this article exists.

#The habitThe replacement you tick instead
66Replaying an argument at 02:00written on paper, dealt with in daylight
67Measuring your week against other people’s highlight reelsone account unfollowed each time you notice the feeling
68Complaining with no request attachedone complaint turned into one ask
69Interrupting people mid-sentencewait for the full stop, every time you catch it
70Only messaging people when you need somethingone message a week with no ask in it
71Cancelling plans the same dayone plan kept per week, whatever the mood
72Apologising for taking up spacethank you, instead of sorry
73Saying yes and resenting it afterwardsone honest no a week
74Leaving the difficult conversation on the shelfone postponed conversation started per month
75Working on all of this privatelyone person told what you are changing this week

Why replace a bad habit instead of stopping it?

Because stopping leaves the cue with nothing to do, and the cue is the part that repeats. The idea has an unusually old and specific evidence base. In 1973, Nathan Azrin and Gregory Nunn published habit reversal in Behaviour Research and Therapy, a method for nervous habits and tics built on a competing response: a movement the person performs instead, physically incompatible with the habit, at the moment the urge appears. It is the ancestor of the habit reversal training still used for nail biting, hair pulling and tics today, and it is the reason rows 60 and 61 in this list describe a movement rather than a resolution.

Why stopping a habit leaves the cue unansweredA diagram of one cue, sitting down at the desk, with three possible paths: the old response which is automatic, the empty path taken when you only decide to stop, and the replacement response which gives the same moment something to do.The cueYou sit down at the deskOld response: open the phoneRuns without your attention. Still available tomorrow.Just stop: nothing hereThe moment is empty, so the old response fills it.Replacement: write the three tasksOccupies the same second. Can be ticked.The cue does notdisappear when youdecide it should.
One cue, three paths. Stopping is the middle one, and it is the only one that leaves the moment empty.

A replacement that is vaguer than the habit it replaces will lose, every time.

Does removing the trigger actually work?

For strong habits, the research says it does not, which contradicts the most common advice on this topic. Search for how to break a bad habit and you will be told to change your cue: take your break somewhere other than the cafeteria, move the biscuit tin, avoid the situation. That strategy has a name in the literature, stimulus control, and it has been tested directly against real habits. Our guide to how to break bad habits goes through the alternatives the evidence actually supports, including why the wording of a replacement plan changes whether it works.

Jeffrey Quinn, Anthony Pascoe, Wendy Wood and David Neal ran two episode-sampling diary studies, published in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin in 2010, asking people what they actually did when they tried to control an unwanted habit. Stimulus control worked, but on temptations rather than habits. Against strong habits, the authors report that no strategy was useful except one: vigilant monitoring, described in the paper as thinking “don’t do it” and watching carefully for slipups. A follow-up experiment found that monitoring does not weaken the habit memory itself. It raises the inhibitory control that catches the response before it runs.

So the honest version of the replacement advice is two-handed. The competing response gives the moment something to do, which is the Azrin and Nunn contribution. Noticing the moment at all is the part Quinn and colleagues found to be doing the work. A written record is how noticing stops depending on mood, and a meta-analysis of 138 studies by Benjamin Harkin and colleagues at the University of Sheffield, published in Psychological Bulletin in 2016, found that prompting people to monitor their progress had a reliable effect on goal attainment, and that the effect was larger when progress was physically recorded and larger again when it was made public.

How do you track a habit you are trying to quit?

You tick the day you did not do it, which turns an absence into something with evidence. A habit you are building leaves a trace: the run happened, the pages were read. A habit you are quitting leaves nothing, so there is no natural record and no way to tell a good week from a bad one three weeks later. Recording the clean day fixes that, and it doubles as the vigilant monitoring the 2010 research points to.

Two rules make it survivable. Track the replacement alongside the abstinence, so the entry says what you did and not only what you avoided. And measure it as a percentage of days rather than as a streak, because a streak counter resets a month of real progress to zero over one bad Tuesday, which is the exact moment most people quit. We wrote about that failure mode separately in streaks versus consistency. If you want the positive half of this list, the trackable habits worth adding, that is in 150 habit tracker ideas.

Where StellarHabit fits

StellarHabit is our habit tracker, and it is built around the two findings above rather than around a streak counter. You log the replacement behaviour daily, the app scores you as a consistency percentage so one missed day is one missed day, and your habits are visible to a small group of people you choose. That last part is the deliberate one: the Harkin meta-analysis found monitoring worked better when progress was recorded, and better still when it was public.

It is worth being clear about what it does not do. It will not remove your cues for you, it has no financial penalty, and it is a poor fit if you want to track alone and tell nobody. Row 75 of the list above is the habit we think matters most, and it is also the one we have an obvious interest in you agreeing with, so treat it accordingly. If you are looking for a person rather than an app, we wrote a guide on finding an accountability partner that does not require signing up for anything.

Frequently asked questions

What are the most common bad habits?

The ones that show up in every area of daily life rather than the dramatic ones: checking your phone before getting out of bed, hitting snooze repeatedly, eating standing at the counter, snacking straight from the packet, keeping email open in a tab all day, sitting for hours without standing, biting your nails, scrolling in bed, buying from adverts inside apps, and replaying an argument at two in the morning. What they share is not severity. It is that each one is triggered by a situation you meet every day, so the behaviour starts before you have decided anything.

What counts as a bad habit rather than a bad decision?

Automaticity. A bad habit is a behaviour you repeat in a stable context, started by the situation rather than chosen in the moment, and which works against a goal you actually hold. A bad decision is made once, with your attention on it. The distinction is measurable: in diary studies by Wendy Wood, Jeffrey Quinn and Deborah Kashy at Texas A&M University, published in 2002, people performing habitual behaviour were typically thinking about something unrelated to what they were doing, because the action did not need conscious guidance.

Is it better to replace a bad habit or just stop it?

Replace it. Stopping leaves the cue with nothing to do, and the cue is the part that repeats tomorrow. The approach has an old evidence base: habit reversal, published by Nathan Azrin and Gregory Nunn in Behaviour Research and Therapy in 1973, is built on a competing response, a movement performed instead of the habit at the moment the urge appears, physically incompatible with it. That is why the replacements in this list are specific actions tied to a moment rather than resolutions to do better.

Does avoiding the trigger work for breaking bad habits?

Less well than almost every article on the subject suggests. Removing or changing the cue is called stimulus control, and it was tested against real habits in two episode-sampling diary studies by Jeffrey Quinn, Anthony Pascoe, Wendy Wood and David Neal, published in Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin in 2010. Stimulus control was effective at inhibiting responses to temptations, but the authors report that no strategy was useful against strong habits except vigilant monitoring, described as thinking do not do it and watching carefully for slipups. A follow-up experiment indicated that monitoring works by heightening inhibitory control rather than by weakening the habit itself.

How long does it take to break a bad habit?

There is no established number, and anyone quoting 21 days is repeating a misreading. The often cited research on this topic, by Phillippa Lally and colleagues at University College London in 2010, measured how long a new behaviour took to become automatic, with a median of 66 days and an individual range of 18 to 254 days. It did not measure how long an existing habit takes to fade. Treat any specific figure for breaking a habit as unsourced until you see the study behind it.

How do you track a habit you are trying to quit?

Record the clean day. A habit you are building leaves evidence, while a habit you are quitting leaves nothing, so without a record there is no way to tell a good week from a bad one later. Ticking the day you did not do it creates that evidence and doubles as the vigilant monitoring the 2010 research points to. Two rules make it last: log the replacement behaviour alongside the abstinence so the entry says what you did rather than only what you avoided, and score it as a percentage of days rather than as a streak, because a streak resets weeks of real progress to zero after one bad day.

Sources

  1. Azrin, N. H., & Nunn, R. G. (1973). Habit-reversal: A method of eliminating nervous habits and tics. Behaviour Research and Therapy, 11(4), 619-628.
  2. Quinn, J. M., Pascoe, A., Wood, W., & Neal, D. T. (2010). Can't control yourself? Monitor those bad habits. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 36(4), 499-511.
  3. Wood, W., Quinn, J. M., & Kashy, D. A. (2002). Habits in everyday life: Thought, emotion, and action. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 83(6), 1281-1297.
  4. Harkin, B., Webb, T. L., Chang, B. P. I., Prestwich, A., Conner, M., Kellar, I., Benn, Y., & Sheeran, P. (2016). Does monitoring goal progress promote goal attainment? A meta-analysis of the experimental evidence. Psychological Bulletin, 142(2), 198-229.
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